When I was a wee lad there were a couple of times when I heard a bunch of my family talking to my older cousins about them one day having kids. And my cousins all argued that not only did they not want to have kids, but they also didn't even want to settle down and live with the same person forever. They wanted to become independent, to spend their money on cool gadgets, to travel to exotic places, and to freely date many people without having to commit to a single one. It makes a whole lot of sense, it's something very simple and very appealing. After all, from a minimalistic and even stoic point of view, the fewer responsibilities you have in your life, the easier your life becomes. If we're talking about secondary things, as opposed to the very basic needs like food and shelter, the logic becomes that the best way to avoid mental distress about anything is to simply not have that thing in your life. It rather reminds me of an episode of Malcolm in the Middle when Lois, ...